Some couples accidentally get pregnant, some couples get pregnant on their first try, some couples like my husband and I just can't seem to succeed in the whole baby making process. For us part of the issue has been my hormones going all crazy sometimes not giving me a cycle for months at a time. Another part of it is we just can not seem to get our timing right. This being a new year my baby fever has come back with a vengeance so I sort of have a plan... Here goes our plan:
* Get back control over my body and my cycles
* Start on a fertility tea to help better my chances of becoming pregnant
* Start telling myself positive affirmations ( I am fertile, I can get pregnant, This will happen for us, healthy body, healthy baby)
* Start charting my cycles again so I know where I stand
* Implement "Sperm meets egg plan"
Let me just say that the TTC community on youtube is fabulous. There is such support and understanding from these ladies who live so far away but yet feel so close to your heart because we all have the same goal of getting pregnant and having the family that we always knew we wanted. I came across a few ladies on Youtube.com who talk about the "Sperm meets egg plan" and for those of you who don't know what that is basically the short version is you baby dance every other night starting cycle day 8. On cycle day 10 start your opk testing and when you get that positive baby dance that night and two more nights in a row skip one day.You can do a pregnancy test 15 days after your positive opk if you haven't had your period.If you haven't gotten your period yet baby dance every other day until cycle day 35 and if you still haven't gotten your period you may want to do another pregnancy test. So my goal is to try this sperm meets egg plan on a cycle and see what happens. For me this plan may not work because at this point I am not even sure if I am even ovulating, but I have to stay positive and visualize my egg being released and meeting up with the sperm and creating my precious cargo.
So here is a run down of my current cycle. Currently on cycle #1, cycle day 69. I thought this was going to be my happy cycle where everything went back to normal and I had 28 day cycles again, boy was I wrong! Cycle day 28 came and went and I got more and more frustrated. I got to cycle day 36 and stopped taking my temperature. I took multiple pregnancy tests which came up STARK white. I had a positive opk and we baby danced on the right days. I suppose this just isn't my cycle. Here I sit, willing my body to start my new cycle already. I am pretty sure at this point I will need a doctors assistance in order to get pregnant but at this point in time I have to stay positive and keep trying to get our timing right. We put in my order today for my fertility tea (loose leaf) and a tea ball as well as vitex capsules. I hope that we get pregnant soon! Baby Dust to everyone who is trying!
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